I've spent the last three hours house shopping the RMLS. I had other things I wanted to accomplish this evening, but this took precedence. So, now it's too late to process some important thoughts about how I frequently find myself worried that if I'm assertive about ANYTHING, that people will think, "well, see, that's what she's like, no wonder he left her." I realize how irrational this is.
Would like to explore this further, perhaps in therapy, because it won't be here, at least tonight since I've fallen asleep a half-dozen times in this paragraph. Must sleep now.